This genuine nature wasn’t just something cultivated from her country roots to sell music; it’s truly a part of who she is.
In a recent heart-to-heart, she offered insights into her family life and how her country upbringing influenced the way she raised her one and only child.
Reba is among those rare gems in the music world because she effortlessly embodies her true self. At 67, she reflects a life enriched with deep country roots, having grown up on a ranch in Chockie, Oklahoma.
In her early years, Reba played in a family band and tended to cattle when she wasn’t in school. Horse riding, particularly barrel racing, was a favorite pastime, and let’s not forget her father and grandfather were celebrated rodeo stars.
The values Reba cherishes today are deeply rooted in her upbringing surrounded by fields and family.
“Mama and Daddy always said to me, ‘If you tell somebody you’re going to be somewhere at a certain time, you show up,” she confessed to People. “That’s how I was brought up.”
By 1990, Reba had just welcomed her son Shelby and had already achieved significant fame. Although being a star, she was mindful about how to nurture her son wisely.
Reba confronted some challenging parenting choices with steadfast commitment to her core values while raising Shelby.
“When we would play games or cards, I’d never let Shelby win,” she explained. “He wouldn’t learn otherwise. I always said to him, ‘I’ll always love you, but it’s important that others like you too. So don’t be a little jerk. Don’t be a spoiled brat.’”
Today, Shelby is a professional race car driver, nurtured by the GRAMMY award-winning Reba and her ex-husband Narvel Blackstock to respect people and see everyone as equals.
“Many people tell me you’d never figure out that he had such a blessed life,” she shared.
Additionally, McEntire admits that before becoming a mother, she tended to be more self-centered. She ensured to spend every possible moment with him.
“I had the best nannies and brought him along on tours,” Reba mentioned. “When touring didn’t allow it, I’d fly home after a show, be up to take him to school, play together, and then jet out for another concert. It was essential to be with Shelby, and it always will be.”
Reba has also been honest about Shelby’s struggles with ADHD. As a child, reading was a challenge, but now in his 30s, he’s an avid reader.
“Shelby continually seeks self-improvement. His dad did a fantastic job too. Shelby is an incredible gift from God to me. We’re very close. I was self-focused before Shelby. Then comes this little person who you’re meant to protect, nurture, and love, shifting focus away from yourself.”
Reba was overjoyed when Shelby recently married his love, Marissa, in a fairytale ceremony at Walt Disney World, fulfilling dreams with a sprinkle of magic.
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