If you are a parent or guardian, you know that what you say to your children has a significant impact. Encouraging them and giving them reasons to strive for their future helps them grow into determined individuals who can overcome obstacles. Conversely, constant criticism can make them feel small, leading them to face the world with a defeated mindset and avoid taking risks.
Words hold immense power, a fact well understood by Stacey Truman, a mother and employee at Kingston Primary School in Virginia. For nine years, Stacey has worked in the school cafeteria, watching children grow into teenagers and venture into the world.
Stacey’s maternal instincts kick in when kids come to the cafeteria for lunch. She wants to do something meaningful to inspire them and offer a fresh perspective. Drawing from a routine she had with her own children, Stacey created the idea of “Talking Bananas.”
Every day, Stacey would pack her kids’ lunches with an encouraging message to motivate them. She noticed that these simple words could positively change their mindset. Inspired by this, she began writing uplifting messages on the bananas in the school cafeteria, providing students with a bit of inspiration during lunch.
Stacey’s thoughtful gesture quickly gained attention. The school administration and parents noticed her efforts. One day, the principal picked up a banana in the lunchroom and found the phrase, “Be your best self” written on it. She took a picture and shared it on Twitter, along with Stacey’s heartwarming story. The post went viral, with parents across the country applauding Stacey’s kindness.
The students loved their “talking bananas” and eagerly anticipated lunch to see the day’s message. Stacey continues to share these positive notes, hoping to inspire the students to achieve great things and approach life with positivity.
The words children hear as they grow play a crucial role in shaping their future. They need encouragement to believe that they can make the world a better place and understand the value of determination, even in challenging times. It’s essential for kids to set priorities and recognize that there are good-hearted people in the world.
As parents and caregivers, shielding our children from negativity and criticism is vital. Instead, let’s speak life into them, empowering them to become the best versions of themselves.
